How to keep strong…
What I do to keep strong is keep my goal clear for myself on what I wnat to reach and what I need for this.
That does not mean I don’t struggle or don’t have fallbacks or even that I know all the time what I am doing. I just know what I want and I don’t give in to temptations. I try to rely on myself and not be dependent on others.
I take care of myself by taking care of others just as much. Their feelings matter to me and it harms me if I hurt them.
It is okay to be alone you don’t always need other people. I have learned by hard experience that even when you are at your lowest and reach out to other people that they do not give home, even when I have been there for them in their difficult times. It is okay.
We need other people, we all do. Humans are a species that thrive best in groups, communities. We need each other’s comfort and care. I need comfort and care, I need love. And somehow someday, who knows, I’ll be happy too.
