On Responsibility and Consequences
I am not responsible for other peoples actions and reactions. I am only responsible for my own actions and reactions. The consequences are mine to carry And I will carry mine.
A consequence inflicted by another person is not your responsibility because this is action from another person. However, of course, I will have to deal with it its not something that I should take personally. This person’s actions will have consequences too for them.
Everyone already has there own load of baggage and things to deal with respect the other person, you can advise them and even let them know how you would handle things but it is on themselves to live their life, not on you.
Do what you believe is the right thing to do and if other people have issues with that’s okay. You are allowed and capable of making your own decisions. You can consult others if you are unsure but follow your own needs first. Because you are the one to deal with the consequences, not them.