Lies can steal your life.
Sometimes you need to tell lies to save yourself from very bad situations that are even life-threatening maybe. Telling lies could be a coping system you have learned when you were not able, to tell the truth because you did not feel safe to do so.
I have been in that situation where I was in a very abusive relationship and simply had to hide things and not only things I had to hide, my feelings, my thoughts, my needs, because anything could be used against me at any given time. It was a scary time that I saw no escape from.
It can be hard and very frightening to turn that around and feel free enough, to tell the truth again and show the world who you are. But its the only way to actually be who you are and start living again. If you don’t turn it around you will be living a lie instead of a life and sooner or later you will regret that.
It may become a habbit and you may think you need to tell lies to make others happy but instead you are going to end up hurting those that you love and who love you with your lies. You will become someone they can not trust. If you can tell lies that easily the people around you have actually no idea who you are and thats very scary to find out that someone you thought you knew is someone completely different. They don’t know anymore whats real about you and what is not.
So please when you can just be honest and genuine, be yourself, you are worth it and you deserve it. You where born to be you.
Be brave enough to be who you are and live your life!
