Unfortunately things between me and Ali did not work out. Things do not always go as we want. That doesn’t mean that either of us is a bad person just that it simply didn’t work out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I don’t really want to go into detail on how things went between us because I think that’s not anyone else’s business. That’s something between me and Ali. He’s a great person and I have no need to hang the dirty laundry that every broken relationship has, outside for everyone to see.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
However I did felt the need to say something about this because the relationship I had with him was different then any other I’ve been in. It helped me a lot in my healing process. Ali showed me a me from a different angle and in a different light. I will always appreciating this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you do happen to read this Ali, I wish you well, good fortune, and love, miss you much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What this relationship brought me is a lot of healing and more wisdom. Wisdom I wish I had at a younger age to make better decisions. The fortunate part of this is that I know better what I want. Or rather what kind of person I need in my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Someone who’s friendly n kind, who can handle me and my C-PTSD. Someone with patience to learn about it. He is supportive, likes to cuddle, and has a generous heart. Someone who communicates things well and has the space for me in his life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don’t get me wrong I am absolutely not looking for a relation at this point. I’m good. I have too much to deal with at this point as it is already dealing with a burnout from everything I got going on. Basically I’ve canceled out everything as much as I can from things I HAVE to do and focus on things I want to do. I just need a break and that’s what I am taking at the moment. A break<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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