{"id":3616,"date":"2020-02-23T08:02:06","date_gmt":"2020-02-23T07:02:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/?p=3616"},"modified":"2020-02-23T08:15:12","modified_gmt":"2020-02-23T07:15:12","slug":"we-all-need-somebody","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/?p=3616","title":{"rendered":"We all need somebody,"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>One of the reasons why I turn to my blog so much and write is because I don&#8217;t have that best friend that people can turn to and talk about whatever without the fear of being rejected. I don&#8217;t have that parent, grandmother, mentor, teacher or whoever that I can turn to for advice or share a thought or tell that dream to, or whatever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I write on my blog to share my thoughts and what&#8217;s on my mind. Sadly my blog is not a person. It doesn&#8217;t reflect on my thoughts and writings. It doesn&#8217;t give me advice, comforts me or answers my questions. It doesn&#8217;t share anything with me except what I write down on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> I love my blog but right now I would trade it within a heartbeat for someone real. We all need somebody. I don&#8217;t have this somebody and that hurts. So I turn to my blog. Lol (not really lol). Knowing this feeling and have known it most of my life is a reason why I hardly ever turn my back on other people. I know this is not always good for my own boundaries but I know the feeling and it hurts. Very deeply and bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube aligncenter wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Bill Withers - Lean on me (lyrics\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/jApLqeCNbUg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the reasons why I turn to my blog so much and write is because I don&#8217;t have that best friend that people can turn to and talk about whatever without the fear of being rejected. I don&#8217;t have that parent, grandmother, mentor, teacher or whoever that I can turn to for advice or [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3616","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3616","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3616"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3616\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3622,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3616\/revisions\/3622"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3616"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3616"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3616"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}