{"id":3496,"date":"2020-01-15T00:07:33","date_gmt":"2020-01-14T23:07:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/?p=3496"},"modified":"2020-01-15T00:07:45","modified_gmt":"2020-01-14T23:07:45","slug":"erased-or-maybe-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/?p=3496","title":{"rendered":"Blueprints"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>As much as we sometimes would want to erase people from our lives, it&#8217;s rather impossible to completely erase that person. They have left an imprint that will always be there.  It&#8217;s like a drawing sometimes you press a little harder on your pencil then other times and trying to erase it leaves a more clear imprint then when you don&#8217;t add so much pressure. Ppl, that are close to us or have a big impact on our lives leave similar imprints.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s impossible to completely erase that imprint from our lives and in some cases, unfortunately, we cant start over like you can with a drawing on a clean sheet of paper. And this can be a very heavy burden when a person is traumatized.  What we can try to do is use those imprints as blueprints, blueprints that show what paths not to follow&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As much as we sometimes would want to erase people from our lives, it&#8217;s rather impossible to completely erase that person. They have left an imprint that will always be there. It&#8217;s like a drawing sometimes you press a little harder on your pencil then other times and trying to erase it leaves a more [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3496","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3496","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3496"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3496\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3498,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3496\/revisions\/3498"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3496"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3496"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3496"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}