What I do to keep strong is keep my goal clear for myself on what I wnat to reach and what I need for this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That does not mean I don’t struggle or don’t have fallbacks or even that I know all the time what I am doing. I just know what I want and I don’t give in to temptations. I try to rely on myself and not be dependent on others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I take care of myself by taking care of others just as much. Their feelings matter to me and it harms me if I hurt them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is okay to be alone you don’t always need other people. I have learned by hard experience that even when you are at your lowest and reach out to other people that they do not give home, even when I have been there for them in their difficult times. It is okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We need other people, we all do. Humans are a species that thrive best in groups, communities. We need each other’s comfort and care. I need comfort and care, I need love. And somehow someday, who knows, I’ll be happy too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
What I do to keep strong is keep my goal clear for myself on what I wnat to reach and what I need for this. That does not mean I don’t struggle or don’t have fallbacks or even that I know all the time what I am doing. I just know what I want and […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2911","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2911","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2911"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2911\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2912,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2911\/revisions\/2912"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2911"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2911"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2911"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}