{"id":2529,"date":"2017-08-04T10:23:18","date_gmt":"2017-08-04T09:23:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/?p=2529"},"modified":"2017-08-06T12:46:06","modified_gmt":"2017-08-06T11:46:06","slug":"10","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/?p=2529","title":{"rendered":"Emotion Regulation 9"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"2k6hh-0-0\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"tbd9-0-0\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"b3etb-0-0\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"9hln3-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"9hln3-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"9hln3-0-0\">This is one of the chapters I was having a lot of issues with to understand. I finally now get it on my third cycle of this therapy. Another chapter down.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"1s00q-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"1s00q-0-0\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"3oo07-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"3oo07-0-0\"><strong>Letting go of emotional suffering: <\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"2pu82-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"2pu82-0-0\"><strong>Pay attention to the emotion of the moment. <\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"elf1m-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"elf1m-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"elf1m-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"92b60-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"92b60-0-0\"><strong>Observe your emotion.<\/strong><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"92b60-0-0\">BE AWARE of the presence of the emotion.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"92b60-0-0\">Take a step BACK.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"92b60-0-0\">MAKE yourself LOOSE from the emotion<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"2m9n8-0-0\">\n<div class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"2m9n8-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"2m9n8-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><strong>Experience your emotion.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"dfgrd-0-0\">\n<ul>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"dfgrd-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"dfgrd-0-0\">Like a WAVE that comes and goes.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"dfgrd-0-0\">DON&#8217;T try to BLOCK the emotion.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"dfgrd-0-0\">DON&#8217;T try to SUPPRESS the emotion.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"dfgrd-0-0\">DON&#8217;T try to get RID of the emotion.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"dfgrd-0-0\">DON&#8217;T PUSH the emotion AWAY.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"dfgrd-0-0\">DON&#8217;T try to KEEP the emotion with you.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"dfgrd-0-0\">DON&#8217;T try to HOLD ON to the emotion.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"dfgrd-0-0\">DON&#8217;T FEED into the emotion.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"4e8d3-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"4e8d3-0-0\">\u00a0<strong>Remember: You are not your emotion.<\/strong><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li data-offset-key=\"4e8d3-0-0\">DON&#8217;T ACT necessarily ONTO the emotions.<\/li>\n<li data-offset-key=\"4e8d3-0-0\">REMEMBER times that you felt DIFFERENT.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"o242-0-0\">\u00a0<strong>Train yourself in loving your emotion<\/strong><\/div>\n<div data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"o242-0-0\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"4qdb4\" data-offset-key=\"2j9rl-0-0\">\n<ul>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"2j9rl-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"2j9rl-0-0\">&#8211; DON&#8217;T JUDGE about your emotion ( you ARE ALLOWED to feel how you feel, IT IS OK)<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"2j9rl-0-0\">Practice READINESS\/WILLINGNESS.<\/li>\n<li class=\"_1mf _1mj\" data-offset-key=\"2j9rl-0-0\">ACCEPT your emotion RADICALLY<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is one of the chapters I was having a lot of issues with to understand. I finally now get it on my third cycle of this therapy. Another chapter down. \u00a0 Letting go of emotional suffering: Pay attention to the emotion of the moment. \u00a0 Observe your emotion. BE AWARE of the presence of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[745],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2529","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-emotion-regulation"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2529","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2529"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2529\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2539,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2529\/revisions\/2539"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2529"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2529"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/whisperedwords.nl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2529"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}